February 5, 2021
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【語言偽術】你是否別人眼中的Nice guy？
⭐對人噓寒問暖彬彬有禮
⭐小心變成偽好人
#星期六隻眼閉
成日講虛偽說話？
「扮好人」斷捨離
好好先生/好好小姐一向受歡迎，所以有時我們會不自覺地「扮好人」，講別人喜歡聽的說話，但事實或心裡面嗰句有可能完全相反！小心別讓自己跌入「扮好人」的無底深潭，由多講表面客套說話，慢慢變成令人討厭的「雙面人」。趁新年來臨前來個「扮好人」斷捨離，不再做及不再講以下說話：
1. 「轉個彎到」（刷緊牙仲未落街）
2. 「做緊，轉頭俾你」（其實只完成40%）
3. 經常講門面說話，例如「搵日食飯呀」
4. 「阻唔阻你呀？」「唔阻～」（實際上恨不得快啲走）
5. 「嘩～我鍾意呀！」（實際上好嫌棄）
6. 「唔該晒你呀！」（其實覺得唔幫好過幫）
7.「我真係學到好多嘢呀！」（事實覺得啲嘢好無謂）
8. 表面讚美人，背後數臭人
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Are you always being nice?
Stop forcing yourself to be nice to everyone
We tend to act nice in front of others because Mr. and Ms. Nice are always more popular and we like that. Very often, we just like to say things to please others even when we do not mean it at all!
The more we ‘pretend’ to be nice, the greater the chance for others to label us as ‘two-faced’, when they get to know our actual thoughts. During the Lunar New Year spring-cleaning, why don’t we get rid of this personality? Let us be more mindful of our behavior and not do the following:
1. “Be there soon!” (Nope, you are still brushing your teeth in your bathroom)
2. “I’m working on it, you will have it soon.” (You are only 40% done)
3. Making plans without doing it such as “Let’s have lunch one day”
4. “Am I bothering you?” “Not at all” (But you are dying to leave)
5. “I love it!” (But you really do not)
6. “Thank you so much!” (But it is not helpful to you)
7. “I am really learning a lot!” (In reality, you do not find it useful)
8. You are complimenting someone but talking poorly about them behind their back.
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